Good enough. pretty enough. smart enough. sexy enough. kind enough.
Enough: The obscure form of measurement by which we assess our self-worth.
WHY AM I NOT ENOUGH?
Secretly you know you should be enough to do anything you want. Yet you wonder if you're even worthy of your desires!
What is the criteria that you’re using to evaluate if we’re enough? Your relationships, friendships, work, ability to earn money?
Maybe you desire your husband to WANT to make changes or to be pursued by the guy you never thought would give you the time of day. Or maybe you desire to have close and sustaining relationships, all while fulfilling your purpose through the career of your dreams.
At some point you came to believe that somehow you’re flawed or inadequate.
Let me help you begin your journey of asking the right questions about:
The parts of who you that are simply fabulous.
The relationships in your life that sustain you.
The work that really calls you.
The true inspiration that you hold in creating a life that’s enough for you.
Stop waiting to be enough for other people and begin your journey of being enough for you!
Simple yes or no to the following 10 questions to start asking the right questions about the quality of your life, right now.
I am responsible for my happiness
The problems I have is because of other people in my life.
I know what I do well.
Often I find myself saying yes to things I really don’t want to do.
I can name 5 things I really enjoy in my life
There are dreams that I have that seem silly.
I can remember the last time I was excited or looked forward to something.
I am limited in my choices for many reasons.
In five years I know what I want my life to look like.
Rarely is there time for me to do what I like or need for me.
Look at how many of the odd numbered questions you answered no to and write that number down.
Now see how many of the even numbered you said yes to.
If you have 8 out of 10 then it’s time for you to start asking yourself the right questions.
How do you see yourself creating the life you know is enough for you?
To start you off on your journey let me share 4 top tips I offer the ladies I work with:
Get clear about what floats your boat.
Know and practice personal boundaries with others.
Become curious about what your greater vision is in your life.
Show up, pay attention, tell the truth and be unattached to the outcome.
Greetings! I’m Leyla Dim a licensed counselor of many years and a woman who has also been on the “am I enough” journey too. After sitting with so many lovely ladies in my therapeutic work I realized that at the heart of most of our stories is the real question. Why am I not enough?
Usually this shows up in our love relationships but often we feel it in many areas of our lives. Keeping us from living our lives authentically from a joyful space, not painful place.
I know that in my journey over many years, and relationships, that I unconsciously was seeking the approval and validation of men’s attention. Society’s acceptance. My children’s acknowledgement. No matter what part of my life I was focusing on I was always coming up wanting. For what, it wasn’t clear.
When I started hearing the same stories and feelings from the many women I’ve worked with I began to get curious about how to change the “not enoughs”. Though unique and personal stories for each woman, one of the running themes was usually, am I enough? Why am I not enough? What is enough?
So, I started asking them to look at the parts of who they are. What they want that might be just enough, as they are. Where there is room for creative growth and new ways of seeing. How to create sustainable change just by doing something different.
Doing something different today for you may be completing my initial assessment to begin to look at where you want more. To ask yourself some very important questions about the quality of your relationship with you, and others. To begin to create the experience you truly want. To learn how small and measurable shifts are all that you need for sustainable change.
Why settle for enough once you know how much more you can be, and are.
I help dynamic women be enough to do enough in their everyday life so they can create the lifestyle that’s ENOUGH for them, and not everybody else.
6 week online group program for dynamic women who want to be enough to do enough to create the life that's more than enough.
Clear out the old programming and stories operating in the background and guaranteed to keep you stuck.
Identify the areas of your life that are holding you back from being more than enough.
Dream into being the life you really want.
Create the vision of your journey to reclaim your sense of self.
DO IT, BE IT, FEEL IT….It’s your life, your choice, your plan to always be ENOUGH!
6 Weekly hour group webinar meetings.
Structured weekly program guaranteed to support you in your vision making process.
Email support between sessions
Deconstruct old stories, roles, and ideas.
Create new vision, beauty and experiences in your daily life,
Identify your true purpose and path.
Do something different. Be different. See what’s different.
During our 8 weeks together, I’ll take you through my signature 3-step process to help you create a realistic and doable plan to get you moving in your journey to be MORE THAN ENOUGH in all areas of your life.
ACTIVATE to breakdown
The imprints of old stories and conditioning that planted the seeds of less than enough.
The parts of your life that are holding you back from living the dream
What your greatest desires are and how to make it a reality.
RECALIBRATE to breakthrough
The roles and labels that are holding you back from being the source of your own.
The old conditioning that may be keeping you from seeing yourself as enough.
The obstacles that stand in the way of your creative process of becoming enough.
Innovative beliefs, new attitudes and focused energy to create enough momentum for enough effective change!
Realistic changes that will sustain you in your change process.
Your new vision for your old life that will leave you feeling excited and motivated to….
Do something different. Be different. See what’s different.
At the end of 6 weeks you’ll be able to see what needs to be released in order to dream your authentic lifestyle into being a reality. Our time together will help you create a specific and individual plan for you to create your new reality. My program will offer you the tools to be able to bring what you learn into your everday life to make the changes you truly desire.